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A Trend That Needs to End

Once might be a fluke.  Even two or three, as every case is different, police do have a difficult job and make decisions under pressure, and the USA is a seriously big country,  300 million people stretched out from coast to coast, and on any given literally millions of them are drunk, stoned, and/or engaged in criminal activity.  But this is clearly  becoming a trend, you’re hearing about stuff like this almost as often as you see cat videos on the internet.

Miriam Carey RIP

Miriam Carey RIP

I’m talking about  the  police using lethal force, when no lethal force is necessary.  There was the case in Los Angeles where the cops killed a man’s Rottweiler (I love Rottweiler’s.  Despite their size and strength, every one I have ever known personally has had a gentle personality, and they tend to be very good with children).  There was the case in Pine Bluff, Arkansas, where the police shot and killed a 107 year old man.  Admittedly, he was waving a gun around and shooting at people, but everybody had already got away from the house and all the police really needed to do was wait.  Then there was the case in a Chicago nursing home where the police killed a man because he wouldn’t go willingly – to the hospital.  He was also extremely old.  There was the football player who was shot 12 times by police as he approached them looking for assistance after an automobile accident.

I had a similar incident once.  I’d been mugged and was on my way to the police station to report it when I was stopped by the police and arrested – for not having ID – and had to spend the night in jail.  That was in Casablanca, Morocco.  I guess I’m lucky it didn’t happen in the U.S.

It happened again yesterday, in Washington, D.C.  A woman driver kind of flipped out, apparently, and was running from police – on Pennsylvania Avenue, from the White House to the Capitol, which automatically adds a political significance to the story, whether she intended it or not.

The police managed to stop her car.  They got her to step out of her car.  Then they shot the fuck out of her, killing her on the spot, while her toddler watched from inside the car.

In all of these cases, the police could have avoided the problem by not shooting.  By taking a second, waiting for the danger – which, in all of these cases, was only in their fevered imaginations – to pass.  All of these cases should be investigated.  In some of these cases, I think the cops should be charged with murder (but that’s for an investigation to decide), but in all of these cases, the police involved should, at the very least, be sacked.

They panicked, they misinterpreted the level of danger, they screwed up.  If we want this trend to stop, they can’t be allowed to  just get away with it.

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Timothy Leary Would Have Loved Facebook

“Admit it. You aren’t like them. You’re not even close. You may occasionally dress yourself up as one of them, watch the same mindless television shows as they do, maybe even eat the same fast food sometimes. But it seems that the more you try to fit in, the more you feel like an outsider, watching the “normal people” as they go about their automatic existences. For every time you say club passwords like “Have a nice day” and “Weather’s awful today, eh?”, you yearn inside to say forbidden things like “Tell me something that makes you cry” or “What do you think deja vu is for?”  Face it, you even

Dr. Timothy Leary, 1920-1996

Dr. Timothy Leary, 1920-1996

want to talk to that girl in the elevator. But what if that girl in the elevator (and the balding man who walks past your cubicle at work) are thinking the same thing? Who knows what you might learn from taking a chance on conversation with a stranger? Everyone carries a piece of the puzzle. Nobody comes into your life by mere coincidence. Trust your instincts. Do the unexpected. Find the others…”

― Timothy Leary

Leary was half right.  Nobody wants to hear what makes you cry.  In fact, if people start telling me what makes them cry, I want them to shut the fuck up.  But, there is a lack of serious, meaningful conversation in our lives and it’s difficult to make that happen.

Leary apparently thought we could make it happen by adding a bit more meaning to our conversational gambits, being more open to random conversations with strangers, and maybe dropping a tab of LSD now and again.

Leary died in 1996.  The internet already existed, but social media hadn’t really taken off yet.  So,  he can hardly be faulted for not realizing the potential of it.  Social media allows us to ask questions like “what is deja vu for?” and maybe get a serious conversation going on the subject.  Maybe not, because we’re not even entirely sure it exists, but that’s just one example.

Of course, 98% or more of what you see on facebook and twitter and all the rest is still “Hi, how are you, doesn’t this weather suck, here are some cute pictures of my kid or some pictures of where I spent my vacation or some stupid video with cats” or other stuff which does not really enhance our experience in this life on Earth, or advance the course of human progress.

But it’s not about the percentages, it’s about the numbers.  2% of the traffic out there is meaningful, and anybody who wants to can seek that out and respond to it and add to it.  It helps us to communicate with each other in ways that we never could before.

Timothy Leary would have loved facebook.

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Wednesday

There are conflicting headlines, some say that enough Republicans are willing to defect and vote like normal people and end this nonsense, others say there’s no end in sight, and I’ve got no inside information on that, and there’s apparently nothing else happening in the world today except Tom Clancy died, which is a shame, only 66, but spy novels is not really my genre so I’d never read any of his books.  RIP anyway, great writer.

I’ve got an early start tomorrow, first class is at 7 a.m., it’s pretty far away but in a fairly straight line Yellow line to Andel and a short bus ride from there but the schedules mesh so as long as I’m out of the house by 6:10 I will be there in plenty of time but, still, 6:10 is 6:10 which means I have to get up at 5:30 and it’s 10:30 now so whether I have anything to write about or not, nonetheless, it is time to write my blog.

A bit of a rough day today, my 1st class wasn’t so terrible but my 2nd class is pretty much in open revolt, there are one or two good students but I can’t even get anything out of them because the second I try to answer somebody who has an actual question, the noise level behind me starts to rise, like crickets in the jungle.

Then I realized I’d left my phone at home and was heading home to pick it up when I realized I didn’t have time for that so got back on the Metro to go straight to pick up Isabel from school and take her to ballet, then I nipped home for the phone because I had to phone Helena to remind her to buy a birthday present for my aunt, who is going to be 100 in 10 days time (Helena’s just a better shopper than I am), grabbede a quick sandwich, too, and headed back to ballet, got there in time, and wrote a little poem on the way, which raised my spirits quite a bit.

I forget which famous writer said it, but I love the quote “I don’t like writing.  I like having written.”

We had Chinese for dinner.  That’s another thing that always raises my spirits.  Have a good night, everybody.

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You Can’t Have It Both Ways

I guess most people use facebook to show photos of their  kids, and swap recipes, and link to funny videos of cats doing normal cat stuff but with human voices dubbed in, because that’s actually pretty easy to do, I guess, and there’s a chance that lots of people will look at it because lots of people like cats and other cute animals, for some reason sloths seem to be big right now.

I suspect that most people don’t get involved in a lot of political arguments on facebook.  But,  I do.  Today’s argument was all about the South, and whether or not slavery was the main cause of the Civil War, and I raised the point that you can’t very well be flying a Confederate flag on the one hand and on the other saying that you’re the “Real Americans,” and waving giant American flags at teabagger rallies and wearing American flag shirts at Nascar races, because it’s one or the other.  The two are diametrically opposed.

Michel Bachmann, vowing to keep open the memorial she just voted to close, today

Michel Bachmann, vowing to keep open the memorial she just voted to close, today

Pretty soon, as these conversations do tend to go, the talk turned to Barack Obama.  War monger Barack Obama, as he put it.  He cited Syria as an example.  I pointed out that Obama had actually not, in the end, bombed Syria (touch wood).  Then he said that Obama was a big weenie.

You can’t have it both ways.

The Republicans in the House got their government shutdown.  So, a lot of government employees will have their paychecks delayed (but not House members) and a few National Parks and things got closed.

In one interesting case, a group of Veterans found the WWII memorial closed.  This was largely a technicality, because it’s a standing, outdoor thing and doesn’t actually require any employees to be there on a permanent basis.  But, there were barriers up and signs saying it was closed.  The vets said screw that, moved the barriers, and went on in.

Good for them.

Right there, getting her picture taken with these radical lawbreakers, was Michele Bachmann.  Michele Bachmann, leader of the Tea Party.  Michele Bachmann, megavocal supporter of the government shutdown.  Michele Bachmann, the reason those barriers were there in the first place

Michele Bachmann, trying to have it both ways.

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The Similarity Between Facebook and Dumpster Diving

I don’t know if you could call it an addiction, the day may come when I’ll just up and quit, but I certainly have the facebook habit and I have it bad.

I leave the occasional smartass comment on a random post from somebody I don’t know, I argue about poetry even though I know most of the people I am arguing with don’t have anywhere near the same definition of poetry I do and would call the stuff I write doggerel or light verse, I argue with people about politics and religion although  I am coming to the  conclusion, a bit more every day, that the reason these subjects are taboo is not because they cause arguments and end friendships, but just because they are futile, nobody is ever actually convinced of anything.

You never know what you'll find

You never know what you’ll find

One quote I read once said “A man convinced by argument will be of the same opinion still” and I don’t know who said it but I read that probably 30 or 40 years ago and it’s stuck with me ever since.  Is that  the power of truth or is that the power of rhyme?

Anyway, I’m drifting away from the point I intended to make which is that reading facebook is a lot like picking through the garbage, which is something I used to do, you can find all sorts of stuff in the garbage, even furniture.

It was my wife who put a stop to that habit.  She said it was a deal breaker.

Anyway, you occasionally find a gem on facebook, a really cool video you wouldn’t have seen otherwise, a link to some good information, sometimes even an interesting and illuminating conversation among intelligent, educated  people.

But you have to sift through the  garbage, the “answer this if you’re a genius” questions and “pick one of these 9 trees and then read what that says about your personality” or “which literary character are you?” and every  time you click on one of those things, it seems to me, you are diminished somewhat as a human being.

Still, I sometimes do.  It’s an addiction.

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